In Lucknow, as in other parts of the world, graves mean little to some people, but a search on the internet proves otherwise! What one will find on this blog isn't even 'a drop in the vast ocean' of tears that would have been shed if it were possible to calculate. The names, the sad poetry, quotes and expression of grief of the loved ones all being ground to dust. "...We always say that the history of a parish is in its graveyards..." Passage West (from a blog and book by Jim Murphy)
Sunday, December 31, 2017
Saturday, December 30, 2017
James Archibald Roberts died 1900
Friday, December 29, 2017
Wednesday, December 27, 2017
A tribute to Edgar Tuck Dec 1932 -- Dec 2017
A tribute sent to Clayton Roberts in Perth, Australia
Edgar Tuck c. 1966 |
Dear Clayton,
Could you forward these few words on to all those Martinians who remember the teachers of
the same era of our beloved late Edgar Tuck 1950 and late 60's
Edgar and I grew up together in Allahabad, one of the University Cities of Uttar Pradesh, India
While we did not go to the same school, we did our Teacher Training at the same college. We happened to be the first two men students at St Mary's Training College when it became co-ed.
We taught together for a short period in Allahabad, Boy's High School before Edgar left for Sherwood College Naini Tal, and then later to the La Martiniere College, Lucknow. We did o
ur University studies together and even qualified in the same subjects for our Bachelor, and Master's Degrees.
My wife, Thea and I have known Edgar for over 75 years, he was a dear friend, colleague and mentor. He was the Best Man at our wedding 59 years ago. What a shock to us when we got the news of his demise on the eve of our 59th Wedding Anniversary, and 3 days before his 85th birthday. We often talked on the phone and frequently visited him in Brisbane.
Thea and I are still grieving the loss of this wonderful person, who was not only a dedicated teacher, but full of compassion and sincerity. Two days ago we received a Anniversary Card from Edgar. He dictated those lovely words that will be in our memory forever. Wishing us and recalling how he got to our wedding from Lucknow to Kanpur, in Hugh Dignam's Morris Car along with Betty and Phyllis Larkins. But most of all expressing his regret as he had planned to surprise us for our 60th Anniversary.
This wonderful, gentleman, was not only a mentor to me but also like a brother. I joined the Martiniere in Jan. 1958. Edgar was responsible for getting me the teaching position in the Martiniere, where I remained till Dec. 1968, before leaving for Australia. We were young, fresh teachers who were keen and ambitious. Bryan Cooke, Mel Green, Edgar Tuck, Nelson Gardner. That is when I learned to play Lawn TEnnis; which I play to this day. One of the few schools that has grass courts for staff to enjoy, what a privilege!
As we journey through LIFE we meet and interact with many people, but those who touch our lives remain with us forever. Edgar. deserves all the great and wonderful accolades, he was a GIANT, not only in the Feld of EDUCATION but in every way; and those who knew him, have sincerely been touched by his compassion, dedication and sincerity.
I can think of no better words than those I borrow from Longfellow's poem, The Psalm of Life, with apologies to WW Longfellow.
People like Edgar remind us of & Leave us with "FOOTPRINTS ON THE SANDS OF TIME."
THANK YOU, DEAR FRIEND, Goodbye! Hail, Hail, the name we own..."
Thea & I shall cherish all the memories Edgar left us with of Allahabad, Lucknow, but most of all most of all our years in the Lucknow La Martiniere as colleagues. May HE REST IN PEACE!
Nelso and Thea Gardner
(Copied to the best of my ability -- Blogger
Thursday, December 7, 2017
Sunday, December 3, 2017
Dr John Charles 1917--1995 Dr Eleanor Charles 1926--2010
IN LOVING MEMORY OF DR JOHN BARNBY CHARLES BORN: 15TH OCTOBER 1917 DIED: 5TH JANUARY 1995** Dr Charles was a doctor in the Indian Army. He was the La Martiniere College doctor for many years |
Saturday, December 2, 2017
Friday, November 24, 2017
Thursday, November 23, 2017
Millicent Norine Cooke, 10 months 26 days, died 1921
Gonda: Allan J D'Cruz died Nov 21, 2017
ALLAN JOSEPH D'CRUZ Died 21 Nov 2017 Buried 23 Nov 2017 by the side of the tree in the pic. The smoke is from the burning agarbattis . * Elder brother LIONEL DESMOND D'CRUZ A retired NER driver Born 23--03--1944 Died 19--05--2010 ** Aunt, mother's sister MRS MAVIS T VAL DEREMAO (nee Gomez) BORN 10--10--1933 DIED 12--07--2006 * Mother MRS MILLICENT C. D'CRUZ (nee Gomez) BORN 13--8--1924 DIED 8--3--2012 * Widow of Anthony Frederick D'Cruz A boiler Inspector on the railways posted for several years in Jamalpur. * (Gonda Cemetery) |
MARION D'CRUZ WIDOW OF LIONEL D'CRUZ DIED 11 DEC 2018 ** PHILOMENA D'CRUZ WIDOW OF ALLAN D'CRUZ DIED 1 APRIL 2018 |
Charles Ray Augier, 84 years, died 1933
SACRED TO THE MEMORY OF CHARLES RAY AUGIER WHO PASSED AWAY AT GONDA ON THE 20TH JANUARY 1933 AGED 84 YEARS THERE IS A CHAIN DEATH CANNOT SEVER LOVE AND REMEMBRANCE LAST FOR EVER * According to Fibis.org Charles Ray Augier married Millicent Harriett Sheen, daughter of Austin George Sheen at Saharanpore at the Roman Catholic Church and afterwards at St Thomas Church (Gonda Cemetery) |
Baby Edith Blanch Margreate De Castro died 1927***
BABY EDITH BLANCH MARGREATE DE CASTRO BORN 12 MARCH EXPIRED 28TH AUGUST 1927 AGE 5 MONTHS AND 16 DAYS * AN ANGEL TOOK MY FLOWER AWAY YET WE WILL NOT REPINE SINCE JESUS ON HIS BOSOM WEARS THE FLOWER THAT ONCE WAS MINE (Gonda Cemetery)
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Tuesday, October 31, 2017
Tuesday, September 19, 2017
Wednesday, August 30, 2017
Tuesday, August 29, 2017
Saturday, August 26, 2017
Japan Air Lines plane crash 1972
IN
MEMORY
OF
THOSE WHO DIED IN THE AIR DISASTER AT JAITPURA,
NEAR DELHI ON 14TH JUNE 1972 WHOSE
ASHES ARE BURIED HERE
AMERICA
ELIZABETH CURTIS
LUCY HEYDORN
EDWIN VINCENT NEMEC
AUSTRALIA
ELIZABETH MARY BERRY
IVY FOSSEY
SUZANNE MARY HOUBERT
--- BRUCE OLDING
BRITAIN
MARGARET FAIRSTOW
ROGER BEDDING
JANET JOHNSON CAMPBELL
MARY IRENE CAMPBELL
SAMUEL HERBERT CAMPBELL
MARY MCGREGOR DUNN
NELLIE HORTON
GEORGE EDMOND IBBITSON
JOHN LAIRD
JEANIE LAIRD
BASIL ------
-----------
BRIDGET MARY WEBBER
ELLEN WILSON
(Pic: Brian Fernandez)
MEMORY
OF
THOSE WHO DIED IN THE AIR DISASTER AT JAITPURA,
NEAR DELHI ON 14TH JUNE 1972 WHOSE
AMERICA
ELIZABETH CURTIS
LUCY HEYDORN
EDWIN VINCENT NEMEC
AUSTRALIA
ELIZABETH MARY BERRY
IVY FOSSEY
SUZANNE MARY HOUBERT
--- BRUCE OLDING
BRITAIN
MARGARET FAIRSTOW
ROGER BEDDING
JANET JOHNSON CAMPBELL
MARY IRENE CAMPBELL
York Cemetery, Pritviraj Road, New Delhi |
SAMUEL HERBERT CAMPBELL
MARY MCGREGOR DUNN
NELLIE HORTON
GEORGE EDMOND IBBITSON
JOHN LAIRD
JEANIE LAIRD
BASIL ------
-----------
BRIDGET MARY WEBBER
ELLEN WILSON
(Pic: Brian Fernandez)
Friday, August 25, 2017
Lady Joan Legge 1885--1939 -- Valley of Flowers
IN LOVING MEMORY
OF
JOAN MARGARET LEGGE
FEB 21ST 1885
JULY 4TH 1939
*
"I WILL LIFT UP MINE EYES
UNTO THE HILLS
FROM WHENCE COMETH
MY HELP"
**
The broken original stone
was replaced by Infinity Outdoor
was replaced by Infinity Outdoor
Explorers, Pune
Thanks to Brian Fernandez who visited the Valley of Flowers in 2017 and Susan Penn-Berkeley Brooks who would have spent considerable time searching British newspaper archives for coverage of the tragic death of Lady Joan. |
***
It is said that a year after Joan's death her
sister had the memorial built at the spot where
she had been buried. The original stone has been
placed on top when the grave was repaired.
FUNERAL OF LADY JOAN LEGGE
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IN “VALLEY OF FLOWERS”
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TRAGIC BOTANICAL EXPEDITION
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Lady Joan Legge, daughter of the sixth Earl of Dartmouth and
sister of the present Earl, who died on Tuesday as the result of an accident,
has been buried in the “Valley of Flowers,”
16 miles* from Badrinath, India.
It was there that the accident occurred, Lady Joan falling
from a hillside while she was pickinig flowers.
She was collecting specimens for the Royal Botanical Gardens
at Kew at the time. – Reuter.
LOSS TO COUNTRY
As already reported in the Sentinel, Lady Joan Legge, who was 54, had been on holiday in India for some months.
For the greater part of her life, Lady Joan had resided in Staffordshire, and had contributed much to the maintenance of her family's traditional interest and activity in social welfare. She gave her practical support to varied organisations in the country to this end, prominent among them being the Boys Scout movement.Scout movement she had held with distinction the office of Acting County Commissioner and Honorary County Secretary.
Lady Joan had given her time and energy to many other forms of social and philanthropic work, and was keenly interested in agriculture. (*Today know to be more like 28 miles)
The Birmingham Mail, Saturday July 15, 1939
The tragic end of Lady Joan Legge in India while on holiday, has caused great regret throughout Staffordshire because of its circumstances no less than the fact.
Lady Joan was proceeded to the Himalayas with native guides on a six months' holiday** after a rather severe illness last Christmas, and, though full details are not yet forthcoming, it appears that she was killed as the result of a fall from a hillside near Badrinath, in the Bhyundar Valley...
The district where Lady Joan was a scout, a scout master, and had acted as district commissioner; and the late Lord Dartmouth was a girl guide. When Lady Baden Powell, wife of Lt. Gen Robert Baden-Powell, the founder of the Scouting and Girl Guides movement, was on a visit for a guide rally some years ago, Lord Dartmouth asked if he could not be enrolled, and he was then and there admitted.
Evening Chronicle, Newcastle Friday July 7, 1939
TRAGEDY OF DURHAM POOR'S "LADY BOUNTIFUL" -- Death After Accident In India
THE POOR of Durham City have lost a real "Lady Bountiful" by the death, as a result of an accident in the Bhyundur Valley, India, of Lady Joan Margaret Legge, youngest daughter of the sixth Earl of Dartmouth and a sister of the present peer.
Despite her frail constitution she went to Durham and gave practical help and sympathetic interest to poor families in St. Nicholas's parish.
She was forced by ill-health to give up the work and took her first holiday in 10 years, going to India against the advice of some of her friends.
As plain "Joan Legge" she wrote offering her help to the Vicar of St. Nicholas's (the Rev. F. H. Pickering) of whose work among the poor and unemployed she had read. It was not until later that Mr. Pickering learned that she was a peer's daughter.
VICAR'S TRIBUTE
The Vicar of St. Nicholas's was distressed when an "Evening Chronicle" representative told him of Lady Joan's death.
"The news is almost incredible," he said, "Besides being one of England's greatest ladies, she was a magnificent Christian, seeking always to help and not to be helped. She had an understanding, kindly disposition and that quality of patience towards others that would never abandon hope for them and a generosity that was prodigious. The poor of St. Nicholas's parish have lost one of their greatest friends.
Lady Joan nursed her sick father for two or three years. As a result she herself had a serious illness, and while convalescing in the South of England she read of the work of the Vicar of St. Nicholas's.
BECAME ILL IN DURHAM
At Easter, last year, she came to Durham and immediately won the affection of all Mr. Pickering's parishioners, but after working for two months, she became ill with pneumonia.
She came back again after three months' rest, but the Vicar then saw she was not strong enough to stand the strain of her work and the rigours of climate, and told her to.
Lady Joan then went for an Indian holiday.
She was born in 1885 and was a Staffordshire magistrate. Her home was at Coven Heath, Wolverhampton
*Another newspaper report mentioned that Lady Joan has spent some months in India, recouperating from her illness before proceeding to the Valley of Flowers. It is known today that the Valley only opens towards the end of June. The Valley of Flowers was discovered by Frank Sydney Smythe (1900--1949, an English mountaineer,
author, photographer and botanist in 1931 while on an expedition and written about in a novel of the same name. The name has remained and is a popular destination for trekkers.)
Evening Chronicle, Newcastle Friday July 7, 1939
TRAGEDY OF DURHAM POOR'S "LADY BOUNTIFUL" -- Death After Accident In India
THE POOR of Durham City have lost a real "Lady Bountiful" by the death, as a result of an accident in the Bhyundur Valley, India, of Lady Joan Margaret Legge, youngest daughter of the sixth Earl of Dartmouth and a sister of the present peer.
Despite her frail constitution she went to Durham and gave practical help and sympathetic interest to poor families in St. Nicholas's parish.
She was forced by ill-health to give up the work and took her first holiday in 10 years, going to India against the advice of some of her friends.
As plain "Joan Legge" she wrote offering her help to the Vicar of St. Nicholas's (the Rev. F. H. Pickering) of whose work among the poor and unemployed she had read. It was not until later that Mr. Pickering learned that she was a peer's daughter.
VICAR'S TRIBUTE
The Vicar of St. Nicholas's was distressed when an "Evening Chronicle" representative told him of Lady Joan's death.
"The news is almost incredible," he said, "Besides being one of England's greatest ladies, she was a magnificent Christian, seeking always to help and not to be helped. She had an understanding, kindly disposition and that quality of patience towards others that would never abandon hope for them and a generosity that was prodigious. The poor of St. Nicholas's parish have lost one of their greatest friends.
Lady Joan nursed her sick father for two or three years. As a result she herself had a serious illness, and while convalescing in the South of England she read of the work of the Vicar of St. Nicholas's.
BECAME ILL IN DURHAM
At Easter, last year, she came to Durham and immediately won the affection of all Mr. Pickering's parishioners, but after working for two months, she became ill with pneumonia.
She came back again after three months' rest, but the Vicar then saw she was not strong enough to stand the strain of her work and the rigours of climate, and told her to.
Lady Joan then went for an Indian holiday.
She was born in 1885 and was a Staffordshire magistrate. Her home was at Coven Heath, Wolverhampton
*Another newspaper report mentioned that Lady Joan has spent some months in India, recouperating from her illness before proceeding to the Valley of Flowers. It is known today that the Valley only opens towards the end of June. The Valley of Flowers was discovered by Frank Sydney Smythe (1900--1949, an English mountaineer,
author, photographer and botanist in 1931 while on an expedition and written about in a novel of the same name. The name has remained and is a popular destination for trekkers.)
The original stone that is placed on top |
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