Eleanor Green and the Mumford children

On the other side of the same grave: ELEANOR GREEN
BELOVED WIFE OF LIEUT J. GREEN
BORN 1ST APRIL 1805 DIED 28TH(?) AUG 1878
(Pics changed with corrections: If the other
grave indeed is that of her husband who had
predeceased her it should have been
Late Lieut J. Green!)

Here are two graves on the same
plinth

(LIEUT J.??) GREEN (STONED FLAKED OFF)
WHO DEPARTED THIS LIFE ON THE 20TH JULY 1874
AGED 79 YEARS 6 MONTHS AND 26 DAYS
HIS LIFE WAS OF THE JUST AND HIS END PEACE. BELOVED
BY ALL WHO KNEW HIM. HE IS MOST SINCERELY
MOURNED BOTH BY RELATIONS AND FRIENDS

ROBERT HERBERT
BORN ?? 1886 DIED 22ND  JAN 1894??
AND
ALICE FRANCES
BORN 29TH OCT 1869  DIED 15TH ? MAY 1884
THE DEARLY BELOVED CHILDREN OF
EDWARD AND ANNIE MUMFORD
(What was the relationship between
Eleanor Greem and the Mumfords,
since the inscriptions are on the same tomb?)